Philemon 1:12

What does Philemon 1:12 mean?

A plain-English look at Philemon 1:12 in WEB alongside six other public-domain English translations, with cross-references and chapter context.

What Philemon 1:12 means

Paul says he is sending Onesimus back “in his own person,” adding, “that is, my very heart.” This reveals deep affection: releasing Onesimus feels like sending away a part of himself. Paul honors the social reality by returning Onesimus, yet reframes it by showing the personal and spiritual bonds now in place. He does not treat Onesimus as a mere issue but as a beloved person. This makes the appeal profoundly human and pastoral. To receive Onesimus will be to receive Paul’s heart, and to mistreat him would wound Paul. Love has knit them together in Christ, and Paul entrusts that love to Philemon’s care.

Parallel translations

WEB

World English Bible · 2000

whom I have sent back to thee in his own person, that is, my very heart:

KJV

King James Version · 1611

Whom I have sent again: thou therefore receive him, that is, mine own bowels:

ASV

American Standard Version · 1901

whom I have sent back to thee in his own person, that is, my very heart:

BBE

Bible in Basic English · 1949

Whom I have sent back to you, him who is my very heart:

YLT

Young's Literal Translation · 1862

whom I did send again, and thou him (that is, my own bowels) receive,

DRA

Douay-Rheims (Challoner) · 1752

Whom I have sent back to thee. And do thou receive him as my own bowels.

DBY

Darby Bible · 1890

whom I have sent back to thee: [but do thou receive] him, that is, my bowels:

Context

Having highlighted Onesimus’s new usefulness, Paul expresses the emotional weight of sending him back. This intensifies the appeal that follows. Verse 13 will explain that Paul wanted Onesimus to remain to minister to him, while verse 14 will show Paul’s commitment to Philemon’s free, willing participation in any good that comes. The rhetoric moves from affection to ethical principle, all to shape Philemon’s decision toward gracious reception.

v.11who once was unprofitable to thee, but now is profitable to thee and to me:

v.12This passage

v.13whom I would fain have kept with me, that in thy behalf he might minister unto me in the bonds of the gospel:

Cross references

Related passages from across Scripture, drawn from the Treasury of Scripture Knowledge.

  • Luke 15:20

    And he arose, and came to his father. But while he was yet afar off, his father saw him, and was moved with compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.

  • Mark 11:25

    And whensoever ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have aught against any one; that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.

  • Matthew 6:14

    For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.

  • Jeremiah 31:20

    Is Ephraim my dear son? is he a darling child? for as often as I speak against him, I do earnestly remember him still: therefore my heart yearneth for him; I will surely have mercy upon him, saith Jehovah.

  • Matthew 18:21

    Then came Peter and said to him, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? until seven times?

  • Ephesians 4:32

    and be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, even as God also in Christ forgave you.

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